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In My experience I find that there is very little out there online for the training of male slaves. This is certainly not to say that interested girls will not find these pages informational but there is more out there for you so I single out the boys in my introduction.  I will describe a little of the area's of importance and then provide some links to pages that will give you insight and some for your reference that you should bookmark. 

On the following pages, I want to offer some helpful hints.  Since I am a Mistress in everyday life as well as online, I know that there there is a diversity amongst the slaves that serve online only and slaves that have the wonderful opportunity to serve in real time.  I think that you can take this training and use it in both worlds.  I often use the online media to try out an idea I have floating around in My head or to just satisfy a curiosity that I'm not ready to put to use on a slave yet.  slaves can do the same.  If you are a slave that serves online only due to restraints in your personal life, I cannot stress how important it is to serve just as you would if you were serving in real time.

So, My suggestion is, that you take the suggestions, even if they originated in the online world of Gorean training and slavery and  remain open-minded to what they have to offer in the way of serving a Master or Mistress. Gor is a fantasy but the training and protocols are not and no slave is sought after more than those that know their place and can kneel at the feet of a Mistress and who can proudly proclaim that they are a well trained Gorean kajirus or kajira.  Think of it as a training tool.

  • Patience: for those that want to learn more about Gor and to be able to move around well online in the Gorean homes and chat communities.  It takes time to learn the ins and outs of being in Gor and it's harder for the kajirus/boys than the kajira/girls.  Masters can be hard on boys and in Gor there are slaves and there are Free and all slaves are required to treat the Free with respect.  If you really want to test your slave belly, just pop in an online chatroom with an old-Gor Master and push your commitment to the limit.  Gor is based on a fantasy world but it's not ALL fantasy and I incorporate much of the philosophy and the Dominant and expected slave behavior into My world.  My slaves are expected to know the protocol and demonstrate it.... or else!

 

  • Etiquette: All slave behavior whether in actual service or with the online experience has certain boundaries and expectations from those in Dominance.  One could say they are "rules" but I have a mild dislike for that word and prefer to just think of it as good slave behavior.  The online rules are a little different from how a slave would behave in direct relation to service to a Mistress or Master in his everyday life but not really THAT different.  There are "irc'isms" that are mainly online but take for instance.... the "karta" which is a position of obeisance performed whenever a slave enters a Gorean home and is asked to "beg" entrance to that home.  If I were spending a day with My slave and had guests over (non-vanilla of course), and he/she entered the room, I would expect them to perform the karta and ask to be allowed the grace of our presence.  This is an excellent example of how I do incorporate Gor into My life.  Once he has been admitted into our presence, he may come and go freely in service and need not do that over and over.  (unless I just get a wild hair and decide to command it of course)

 

  • Slave Positions:  I don't know how much time any of you have spent in real service but if you know and respond to slave positions you may know some form of these positions already.  These are specifically Gorean although I have a theory that John Norman "borrowed" them from those created by the "Old Guard" gay leather community in the 60's. I find them very pleasing.  Some positions are for "use of a slave" (sexual) and some are just pleasing to look at or command.  I enjoy the training and afterwards I enjoy seeing a slave obey and assume the position I have commanded.  It puts this satisfied smile on My face and gives Me a warm fuzzy feeling in My tummy..  I am going to try to comment on the positions which will be time consuming but will grow with time so check back every now and then if you want to see My own commentaries on them.

 

  • Specific Serves:  I think that for a slave to be taught to do specific serves is a good exercise in the scope of her/his slave training.  Owners might tweak them to their specific needs but I do think it's better if the basic serves are taught and then specifics commanded when the serve is requested.  For instance, in serving coffee (referred to as blackwine in Gor) it's better to teach them a basic serve and then to tailor it to taste with each serve.  It will allow for less mistakes and a smoother service experience.  I am going to link you to the pages of a girl that will be an excellent source and a wonderful to emulate.  Do NOT steal her serves.  Once you read a few you will get the hang of it and can interject your own personality and passion into them.   Most of the serves on Gor can be refitted for everyday life... be creative.

Here We go.. enjoy your exploration in learning how to be the best slave (or even submissive) that you can be!

I'm going to post some links here that will be informational to you... I'm having a really hard time separating the Gor from the non-Gor training and I think I'm just going to let things flow that way because it's seems to be emerging as a style for Me.  Even if you are not interested in Gor, the protocols are a good thing for you to know, also.. most all food and drink on Gor can be equated to what you really might be serving so pay attention and USE it to your advantage. 

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BASIC TRAINING:  this is a pretty good site for basic training and the beginner.  It includes serves.. and some general rules to help a boy keep his head attached to his shoulders... 

Written Descriptions of slave positions - The positions explained in text by shery{MKL}  They are written explaining as a kajira.. but are the same for kajirus... just described in a more masculine way.

Pictorial examples of slave positions - This is the page done by shery{MKL} if you want to take a look at the positions all placed on one page.  They are done by a girl but there is really no difference from boy to girl so it will give you an idea what they look like and the names.

Gorean drinks and food - This is a REALLY good explanation of the drinks and the food that is served on Gor. this is a place where you can use your imagination to transfer the gorean drinks to those you might serve to a Mistress in a real service situation.  Learn this page and you wont ever get caught with your pants down... (well that's a lie but it is a good site)

Sample Serves - This is a great site to see how it's done by a really excellent kajira. Please take notice how the slave serves from the heart and how they try to incorporate something about the Dominant they are serving as they do it.  Every movement is done for Their pleasure.  This is what makes DOING a serve worthwhile.  This is a place where you can use your imagination to transfer the gorean drinks and food to those you might serve to a Mistress in a real service situation.  Learn from these slaves and you wont ever get caught with your pants down... (well that's a lie but it is a good site)

Anyone can grab a bottle of wine or throw a cup of coffee on the table like a waitress.  you are NOT a waiter or waitress.. you are a slave... serving from your heart.  (a note to any Free reading this.. please pay attention to a serve and don't make a fool out of Yourself by not noticing the end of the serve)

.. ONE MORE THING... a slave does NOT move until his/her serve is accepted by the person they are serving.  It is not up to you to decide they are not paying attention and just wander away. 

Branding!!!.. OOOOOOOOO - OK!... you precious slaves are always so enamored of the brand and the branding that I had to find something of it for you.. here it is... I have been present at a real branding and there is a picture of My brand on my toy page if you want to take a look at it.    be sure to follow the link and see raine's branding....

Essay about the kajirus (male slave) by a Gorean Master- This site is an essay of sorts written by Master Luther of Gor specifically about the male slave on Gor.  I don't agree philosophically with his writings, but they do tend to be true to the books of John Norman.  They do not however show the reality of how kajirus are accepted on irc Gor.  Take it with a grain of salt but I do think that it will make for interesting reading for you.  Yes, I know it's fantasy but I also think that boys fear the judgments of their Dominant brothers and it's a wall that I strive to jump over when I'm training a boy.

Descriptions of the kajirus - This site offers some descriptions of the kajirus as described in some of John Norman's books.  It's interesting to see the different kinds of slaves that Norman included in his "Man's World" such as red silk or pleasure slaves and fighting slaves.  Sit quietly for a few moments after reading it and picture yourself dressed and used as a slave like this and then the next time you have the opportunity to serve a Mistress in reality, use that to hone your submissive aura.

 

 

 

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