The role of a Mistress in the life of Her boys

This should be a title for an essay that explains the role of a Mistress towards Her slaves.

The fulfilment of boys dreams in the need to serve, to be controlled and to submit completely on one hand and at the same time the exploration of the servitude of these slaves to fulfil my Mistress’ every possible wish and desire to control their lives.

In this we recognise immediately a delicate ensemble to be complementary, based on the empathy of a Mistress, She at the end controls the relation and is based on mutual trust.

Not all would agree with this, because some think that a Dominant/slave relation is directed one way. This means that a slave, no matter what his/her desires are, do whatever the Dominant wishes. And the Dominant can do or wish from that slave, whatever they wish, regardless to the slave and its nature. I think such a "one way" relation is doomed and will never last long, because its’ meaning is senseless for the slave and only by force to be continued. Such a relation is based on fear and not on mutual trust.

Before continuing, it must be clear that this is all about a bi-directional D/s relation based on mutual trust and not the one based on fear.

Another important fact is that each D/s relation is unique for each slave is unique and so it can happen that a Mistress who owns more then one slave has different relations and plays different roles to each slave as each slave play a different role to it's owner.

When we look back to the main subject we could ask: "What is Mistress Role in a boy’s life?"

First of all it's a very private question and its answer will be corresponding to that and unique in its nature, cause it's based on the relation between me and My Mistress. So it's not a general concept of "role playing" between any Mistress and any slave, although it’s based on the general concept of that very bi-directional D/s relationship.

For me, as slave, which I think I am, the concept of My Mistress and Her role is based on the nature of my needs, my dreams and my wishes. It might seems strange to speak of wishes, because a slave has nothing to wish, but denying these, would be the denial of one self. Even a beast has wishes and needs.

The art is to show your Mistress what you are and what your slave heart is all about, so She can fulfil and play Her role in a way that you feel your belly burn and crave to fulfil Her every wish. The more that your Mistress is empathic, sensitive and open to you, the more She can exploit Her slave and let him do whatever Her needs are. The Mistress, in Her role can be very explicit and demanding when it comes to Her needs and wishes, but the slave can’t be demanding’, neither explicit, he has to show Her his feelings and emotions to let Her recognise his nature.

In my Mistress relation to me and the role She fulfils in that, it’s important to know what my nature is. I’m a slave that needs a lot of control, restrictions and no freedom, not even little playroom to manipulate things. I’m a slave that needs to know the boundaries of what is expected or not. I’m a pain slave, one that needs to feel pain. I’m a slave that needs humiliation to a certain extents. I’m a slave that needs approval, care and love. I’m a slave that needs a fair Mistress, straight, demanding, powerful and never to be weak in Her “love to Her boy”, for weakness is the poison for my slave heart. For me the role of Mistress is clear and it’s Her turn to use Her slave needs to let him burn his belly on Her every wish.